I simply can't stand it.
The fact that some people are so caught up in their own issues, that they cannot seem to remember the people that help them out. Issues that they completely bring upon themselves, that they pretend to love.
If someone agrees to help you with something, you shouldn't expect them to wait on your hand and foot.you shouldn't expect them to pay for frivolous, ridiculous things that you wouldn't be willing to pay for. You shouldn't act like your needs are above their own, when you're so caught up in them helping you that you don't even bother to ask about them.about the new house they're about to buy, about the serious health issues that they've developed, about the the extra fucking credit card that they've considered getting because they want to help you so badly. but have no money left for your stupid whims.
Because they are the good friend. They are the friend who tries too hard, who listens to your stupid problems when they would rather do anything else, who is sympathetic to you even though they completely disagree with every single choice that you have made that brought you to where you are. When every body else looks at that friendship, they will judge you.
Because you are a bitch. Because you are selfish.because you couldn't care less about their problems, because you consider your wants to be above their needs. Sorry princess, have a nice life. No one does that to their friends and keeps them, think about that next time they help you.
If there is a next time.
Love,
Alice.
